"What's up? I can see you're upset."
No words yet. Then an older boy from the other school that shares our site came over. "What's up, D?" the other boy said as he looked gently into my student's face. He took one of D's hands, gently smoothed out the fist, and did the same with the other hand. "You all right, man? OK then." And he ran off to get in line to go to class.
Another student of mine came up and said, "What's wrong with you?" which sounds a little harsh, but he said it so gently that D didn't seem to mind. Then he finally told us that someone in his family had been in a car accident. We talked a little more about it, and then the boys ran off to play a little before the bell rang.
Blessed are the peacemakers.

No comments:
Post a Comment